As a nutrition coach, it's not uncommon that someone asks me:
“What kind of diet do you follow?”
People expect something strict, “clean”, maybe a little obsessive and think that my shopping cart is packed with kale, quinoa, and plain chicken breast.
The truth? I don’t prescribe diets to my clients, and I don’t follow one either.
Instead, my approach to food is rooted in balance, variety, and real, whole foods, with one key principle always at the center: moderation.
Yes, I focus on high-quality nutrition. But you’ll also find bread and sweets in my shopping cart—because everything can fit when you let go of perfectionism and focus on what really works long term.
But it took me years to get here.
In my early 20s, I—like many women—believed I had to start dieting. I began with Weight Watchers. It worked in the sense that I lost weight. But what I also gained was a deep-seated fear of fat.
I avoided oil like the plague. Butter was out. I lived on apples and raw carrots—so many carrots that, to this day, I still don't like raw carrots. Sure, I learned to love vegetables, but I was barely eating any protein or healthy fat. And because I had completely cut out sugar, I would eventually break down and binge on chocolate and candy. That happened at first once a month, then become a biweekly and then a weekly thing.
Then came Paleo. It actually was a step forward—I finally started eating more protein, in fact, more food in general which was very much needed. Especially once I got into strength training, I realized that those barbells won't come off the floor if I keep restricting my eating. But I followed the most strict version you could imagine: no grains, no dairy, no potatoes. I remember bingeing on coconut milk and nuts just because they were “allowed.”
Later, I tried intermittent fasting. I wasn’t counting the hours, but I’d regularly delay my first meal until late morning—after teaching a bootcamp, doing my own HIIT session, and sometimes even going for a run before eati g anything. My body was running on coffee, stress, and fumes.
Each phase came with something useful. I don't blame these diets–after all, it was me who chose to follow them in such an extreme way, no one forced me. But doing so also did something damaging. I always had a list of “bad” foods, and I was constantly trying to tighten the reins, hoping to finally find the perfect diet.
It didn’t work.
Today, my approach is the opposite of restrictive. I eat a wide variety of foods. I eat enough. I eat carbs, fat, and protein. I eat when I’m hungry. Stop when I'm full. And I feel better than ever.
In my most recent Costco trip, I got a bunch of things that I put in the following categories:
If you’ve ever wondered how to shop in a way that’s both healthy and realistic, let’s dive in.
Let’s start with produce, the foundation of every cart.
Fruits and vegetables are essential for digestion, blood sugar regulation, and overall vitality—thanks largely to their fiber content. I always aim to get in a variety of colors.
Here’s what went into my cart:
One of the biggest mistakes I see (and used to make myself when I was living off of apples, carrots, fat-free milk and pasta) is not eating enough protein. It’s essential for muscle maintenance, satiety, and hormonal health.
Here’s what filled the protein section of my haul (I've added links where I could find them):
Let me be clear: I’m not anti-carb, and I certainly don’t fear sugar.
I picked up:
I eat a little bit of sugar daily. Why? Because when I completely restrict it, it backfires. A little each day keeps me feeling satisfied, sane, and balanced. That’s the mindset I encourage my clients to adopt too.
The key? Moderation, not moral judgment over what’s “clean” or “dirty.”
A few other things made it into the cart that aren’t necessarily “main ingredients,” but are part of my routine and wellness:
When people ask what kind of diet I follow, I tell them:
I don’t follow one. I live by principles, not restrictions.
That’s the “easiest diet” I’ve ever followed—because it’s not a diet at all. It’s flexible, balanced, and built for real life.
Nutrition is just one part of the puzzle. If you want to get fitter, stronger, and feel better in your body, you need to train your muscles regularly—not just restrict your food.
That’s why I created Fit From Scratch: a completely free workout plan that helps you build strength from the ground up. It’s available in two versions:
Choose what works for you—and start feeling the difference in your energy, mindset, and results.
A well-stocked kitchen—and a healthy lifestyle—doesn’t require perfection. It requires principles you can live with and habits that support your life, not restrict it.
You don’t have to choose between chicken breast and chocolate. You can have both. I do. Every week.
And I’ve never felt better.
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